14 things I learned when I quit my job to travel the world

I found this article online and thought it appropriate for this site. I’ve taken the liberty of infusing my own insights.

By Anisa Purbasari

Two years ago, I made the decision to leave my job as a lawyer to travel the world as I transitioned into a new career as a journalist.

The decision was scary, exciting, and left me wondering more than once if I’d made the right decision. I can now say without a doubt that I did.

The experience not only let me tick a few countries off my list, but also equipped me with skills and experiences that have been useful in both my personal and professional lives.

Like any uncomfortable endeavor, there were unexpected twists and turns. Here are some of the major lessons I learned in the process:

1. Have a clear goal and purpose

Many people dream of quitting their jobs to travel, but it’s important to think about why you want to do this, what you want to get out of traveling, and how you think traveling will achieve this purpose.

For example, I wanted to travel to reinvigorate myself after a stressful stint as a lawyer and transition into a new career. Doing this meant traveling at a slow pace, staying in each destination for a month or two. I also needed to rent an apartment with a decent internet connection so that I could work remotely.

(I have to admit, I didn’t have much of a plan when I decided to unretire in Costa Rica and instead travel the world to live in other countries on a very limited budget.)

2. It’s OK not to do everything

Everyone’s reason for traveling is different, and people value certain activities and experiences over others.

For me, sampling the cuisine in each place was extremely important, so I chose to spend my time and money hunting down the best eats … sometimes over “must-see” tourist hotspots!

(Except for a few side trips meant as tourist adventures – Rome, Yogyakarta, Bali and Penang, Malayisa – my travels are more about how to live in other country’s as opposed to showcasing all the great things the countries have to offer – which have been written about and photographed countless times already.)

3. Have an honest conversation with your travel companions about expectations and budget 

I traveled with my husband, which made this aspect easier. There was no awkwardness when we voiced our thoughts about what we wanted to do and how much money we were planning to spend.

On our trip to India, two of my college friends joined us. There were no major conflicts, but there were times when we differed in what we wanted to do, what we were willing to pay for accommodations, and even where we wanted to eat breakfast.

It was a short trip, so we were able to compromise on most things. If it was a longer trip, however, I could envision frustrations building up — potentially ruining the trip and even the friendship.

Make sure to set expectations with your travel buddies before you depart.

(No problem here. I travel alone, with my two bags and a pack.)

4. Long-term travel isn’t a solution to any problem

In her popular blog Legal Nomads, lawyer turned travel blogger Jodi Ettenberg cautions prospective travelers who wish to run away from their problems.

“I would be lying if I claimed that I had no hopes of being fixed with my adventure,” Ettenberg wrote. However, she adds, “some things are hard-wired in you. Some qualities, no matter how much you work at changing them, will lessen, but they won’t go away.”

You might feel good about “getting away from it all” the first few days, weeks, or even months of travel. But any problems you try to leave behind will always find their way back to you in one way or another.

(Disagree. It is a potential solution if you need to live cheaply and cannot do so in the U.S. But you still do need some extra budget for travel and relocation expenses.)

5. Travel insurance will save you in ways that you don’t expect

Accidents on the road happen, and often they’re not the ones you mentally prepare yourself for.

Our insurance came in handy when my husband was bitten by a street dog on our morning jog in Siem Reap, Cambodia. We didn’t want to take any risks with the potential of contracting rabies, so we opted for full treatment. Without insurance, it would have cost us about $4,000.

Previously, I had always been blasé about travel insurance, never really having needed it. Now, I will always factor it as a non-negotiable cost of travel, no matter the destination.

(I’m sure this is true and is the prudent thing to do. I’ve been on the road for 6 years without travel insurance. Don’t think my budget can afford it but I know I’m playing with fite.)

6. You’ll experience fear, uncertainty, and occasional boredom

Long-term travel is not always glamorous. If you’re doing it while building a business (like my husband) or a starting a new career (like me), repetitive days are guaranteed. And while being in a new place is exciting at first, eventually you get settled into a routine, just without the support network that you’re used to having at home. Suddenly the excitement turns into, well, loneliness.

When we discovered this at the beginning of our travels, we decided to embrace it, along with the fear and uncertainty of what our future travels would bring. When those negative moments struck, we allowed them to pass and focused our energy on the positive experiences that we had that day.

(Well, these are all certainly true. The fear and uncertainty part is especially strong when you first move to a new country, especially in finding a place to live. Once settled, however, only relatively minor problems will be encountered. The boredom does, in fact, occur once you are into a routine. The answer is to get off your butt and do something new.)

7. The experiences you’ll remember may be those that seem the most mundane (or annoying) at the time

Don’t get me wrong, I loved seeing the Taj Mahal up close and witnessing majestic Angkor Wat at sunrise. But they weren’t my most memorable travel moments.

Some of my favorite memories are sleeping on an overnight train in India, shopping for unique ingredients at the local market, and having candle-lit dinners by necessity due to consistent power outages.

(Totally agree. Without the photos, I would forget much of the temples and tourist sites I’ve seen. It’s the people you encounter, and the ones you end up calling your friend, who make the difference. You might remember more the night you sat on the marble floor of the LA airport, with a sandwich and a bottle of Jack Daniels (which was still in its duty-free bag and was not supposed to be opened), writing in your blog; or the formerly perfect stranger who rode you around on the back of her motorbike to three banks so that you could open up an account.)

8. If you want to make money on the road, plan before you leave

What are you going to be doing? How much will you earn? How long will it take for you to have money coming in? How much do you need to save in advance to tide you over until you start earning?

Some travelers, like Karen Sargent and Paul Farrugia, discover and take advantage of opportunities while they are on the road. However, they focused on saving money beforehand to cover their expenses until those opportunities presented themselves.

(Interestingly, I left the U.S. because I couldn’t get a job in my field anymore – too old and too experienced. I had completely, almost, given up the idea of working again. And thena job in Indonesia was offered, and later a job in the Caribbean. I still can’t get a job in the U.S.)

9. Engage with the locals

Attending the wedding of a college friend during my trip to India taught me more about the culture and people than any book or article ever could. Taking the time to speak to a tuk-tuk driver in Siem Reap about his life provided unique insights into the hopes and aspirations of young Cambodians.

When we travel, it’s all too easy to withdraw into our comfort zones and only engage in conversation with people we know. But the rewards for doing the uncomfortable are often much greater.

(This is the best advice possible. You will never know another country or its people by hanging around with a bunch of your fellow expats at some fancy resort or expensive hotel. Mingle with the locals as much as possible. If you get an invite to a local wedding or something similar, run, do not walk, the the event. When I relocate, I prefer to live within the local community, not in expat villages, although I still need the creature comforts of a decent apartment.)

10. Having more money doesn’t guarantee a better experience, but it can save you time and stress

Southeast Asia and India are some of the best destinations for cash-conscious travelers, but there were still times when money stress hampered the travel experience.

You will never regret over-budgeting for your trip.

(I don’t have much, so this is not an issue.)

11. Keep in touch with people you meet on the road

Professionally, I was able to land freelance writing opportunities while traveling because I kept in touch with a supervisor from a previous internship in Singapore.

Making personal connections can also benefit you in your travels beyond that country or city — for example, new friends may have contacts in your next destination.

(In many ways, I dislike Facebook, but it does provide a good way to keep in touch. I now have friends in several countries that can be of help if necessary. And I even have a business relationship with a couple.)

12. Physical stability may be necessary for you to thrive

Prior to my travels, I’d voraciously consumed podcasts and blog posts about digital nomads who adopted the work-while-traveling-the-world lifestyle. But during my trip, I discovered that I prefer the physical stability of having a home base.

While I taught myself how to be productive on the road, I am much happier when I know I will settle somewhere for a few years, as opposed to a few months or weeks.

13. Be grateful for your experiences, good and bad

Moving from one unfamiliar place to another will always yield some negative experiences and frustrations about unmet expectations.

For example, we didn’t realize that power outages were commonplace in Cambodia, and that when one occurs, it can go on for more than 24 hours.

The first time it happened, my husband and I complained and sulked. When it kept happening, we soon realized that our grumpiness wasn’t helping the situation. We eventually learned to be grateful for the inconvenience, as it provided an opportunity for us disconnect from our phones and laptops and talk to each other.

We also began visiting other parts of the city that had power or generators, encountering places we probably wouldn’t have discovered had the lights stayed on.

Every experience always has an aspect that you can be grateful for, even when it’s difficult to think of one at the time.

(When you live in near Third World countries as I have, you have to learn to roll with the punches, go with the flow (and other cliché terms). Life will constantly throw you curves, which is part of the fun of travel. You just need to deal with the challenges calmly and understand it’s all a learning experience – and something you will be able to write about later. For example, when my Hua Hin lawyer told me he had screwed up and I would have to make an expensive trip out of country in order to apply for my long-term Thai visa, I didn’t blow up. I calmly said to him that this will be another adventure for me, something else to put in this blog , and another country stamp in my passport. I think I caught him off-guard.)

14. The company you meet and keep makes a place worth visiting again

When I think about the destinations I want to return to, places where I’ve cultivated relationships that I want to maintain tend to be at the top of the list.

At the end of the day, what makes a place special is not the temples, historical monuments, or beautiful waterfalls and beaches. It’s the people you made memories with there. – Business Insider

About 2bagsandapack

Lifetime journalist, author, magazine editor and publisher, now semi-retired and traveling the world. My plan, after living in Costa Rica for 14 months, was to visit a new country in southern Europe every three months to experience the culture and the challenge of adapting to a new environment, while on a fixed income. That plan was sidetracked when I was offered a job in Indonesia, providing an opportunity to explore Asia. Indonesia lasted for a 4 wonderful years but I have now moved on to Hua Hin, Thailand.
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